FAMILY HARMONY: THE INTEGRATION OF LOVE, EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION, AND LIFE BALANCE IN THE PERSPECTIVE OF ISLAM AND FAMILY PSYCHOLOGY
Abstract
As the most fundamental unit of society, the family plays a crucial role in shaping individuals' character and quality of life to create harmonious relationships. Therefore, it is necessary to conduct an in-depth study to explore and analyze the concept of integration of family harmony theory through the perspective of Islam and family psychology, which focuses on three critical aspects: 1, Fostering love as the primary foundation, 2. Developing effective communication to maintain healthy family relationships, 3. Achieving balance in family life.
The research methodology employed is a qualitative approach, leveraging existing literature to draw insights from various pertinent research findings. The analysis reveals that the establishment of a sakinah, mawaddah, and rahmah family, as perceived through the lens of Islam and family psychology, necessitates heightened awareness, commitment, and tangible efforts from each family member. This involves the enhancement of positive, intense, and affectionate communication patterns, which serve as a cornerstone in fostering healthy and harmonious relationships. The implications of this research are anticipated to inspire the community to strive for the creation of a harmonious family in accordance with Islamic values and the science of family psychology, in an integrated manner.
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